Col 3:1-3 (ESV)
If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
This short series has reflected on the most fundamental reality we need to grasp when as Christians we consider our relationship between the world and the Christian, or, if you like, between creation and new creation. The basic controlling reality the Bible stresses when we think of creation, the first creation, is that we have died to it.
This final post reflects on the tension Christians face living in the old creation yet living for the new creation. Our focus is not the tension created by sin. Sinful things are just plainly wrong and our duty as Christians is to put sin to death. The more complex issue is the tension between what is God-given and good in the old creation which is ours even as ‘strangers’ to enjoy (1 Tim 6:17) and the responsibilities, rewards and greater riches of the new creation to which we are called. Some believe there is no such tension but that is to ignore the plain teaching of Scripture. Jesus speaks of the tension when he juxtaposes life in this world and ‘seeking first the Kingdom of God’ (Matt 6:33). It should be beyond dispute that Kingdom (or new creation) living makes demands that may cost us dearly in this life. That is why Jesus says
Matt 10:34-39 (ESV)
“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
again
Luke 14:26-27 (ESV)
“If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.
and again
Matt 19:29 (ESV)
And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name’s sake, will receive a hundredfold and will inherit eternal life.
Loyalty to Christ and his Kingdom is costly. It means putting new creation priorities before family and friends and many of the apparently legitimate things of life. Jesus teaches those who follow him that the cost is not simply our sin but involves legitimate things too.
One Scripture that makes this tension plain is Matt 19. Note carefully his argument.
Matt 19:3-12 (ESV)
And Pharisees came up to him and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause?”He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce and to send her away?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”
Jesus is asked his view on divorce. He makes it clear that divorce is an accommodation to a fallen creation and is not God’s primary will. He further forbids any breaking of the marriage bond by divorce except where it has already been broken by fornication. In terms of our above definition Christians living in new creation eschew what is fallen and sinful in old creation (in this case improper divorce). However, whatever the wrongs of divorce, Jesus makes plain that marriage is a good thing by sourcing it in creation.
Christ (and so Christians) recognises and respects the good creation order. Yet it is just here an important qualification must be added. The disciples, dismayed at his strict limiting of divorce, say, ‘If such is the case it is better for a man not to marry‘. Observe carefully Jesus’ reply,
“Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given…. there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”
A very important principle is drawn out here. It is that what is good and legitimate for Christians in creation they may well forego for the sake of the higher good of the Kingdom of God; old creation gifts may be trumped by new creation priorities. The example here is marriage. Some Christians with the faith and gifting from God to do so will remain unmarried for the sake of more effective service in the Kingdom of God.
Now it is important to emphasize there is no rule here. It is not wrong to marry. Indeed we can go further, it is good to marry. Yet some choose to remain unmarried because they believe that they will more effectively serve Christ if free from family commitments. What is ‘good’ is sacrificed for a greater ‘good’.
Paul echos this teaching of Jesus in 1 Cor 7. In his view, those who can remain single should do so. He believes this will mean less ‘worldly cares’ and better facilitate service for God.
1Cor 7:25-39(ESV)
Now concerning the betrothed, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned, and if a betrothed woman marries, she has not sinned. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that…I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband…
I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord. If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry-it is no sin. But whoever is firmly established in his heart, being under no necessity but having his desire under control, and has determined this in his heart, to keep her as his betrothed, he will do well. So then he who marries his betrothed does well, and he who refrains from marriage will do even better. A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. Yet in my judgment she is happier if she remains as she is. And I think that I too have the Spirit of God.
Notice the fine line Paul wishes to walk. He thinks singleness is better but he is careful not to insist upon it; there is no command. To marry is no sin, not at all. He recognises singleness is not for everyone. Each has his own calling and gifting from the Lord (cf. Matt 19:12). Married believers are not second-class Christians. Yet, he thinks, on balance, singleness is preferable. Here Paul is grappling with this tension between the good and the better, between the permitted in this creation and the pressing of the new creation, of the Kingdom.
Jesus in Matt 19 and Paul in 1 Cor 7 both discuss this tension in terms of marriage and foregoing marriage for Kingdom ends. But of course marriage is only one of many areas to which this applies. Indeed Paul widens the issue out in 1 Cor 7 when he writes,
1Cor 7:29-31 (ESV)
This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none, and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods, and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away.
Here is the tension again. The priorities of the Kingdom and the urgency of the hour mean that we live with constant tension. We find that the possibilities of the first creation must always be weighed against the prerogatives of the second . We are new creation people living in an age that is passing and the life of the age to come presses its concerns upon us; the future impinges on the present and the eternal eclipses the temporal.
As Christians we are always balancing creation and new creation living. How much time do I give to my marriage, my family, my career, my hobbies and so on? What comes first my family or my faith? When do I put down a good book and read my Bible or pray to nourish and feed my spiritual life? Do I put a night in relaxing before the prayer meeting? Is my free time sacrosanct or do I share it with others in need? How much of my salary do I spend on myself and how much do I give to the Lord for the good of others? The examples are endless.
How are we to decide? In many ways this comes down to a personal decision as we are guided by the Spirit.. However, there are a few principles that seem to particularly govern the big picture if not the details.
- We must weigh is whether we have the gifting or grace for whichever Kingdom-sacrifice we are considering making. Paul does not wish those who will function better if married to choose a life of singleness. Singleness for the sake of the Kingdom of God is not given to all, it is only for those who can ‘receive it’ (Matt 19). Virtually enforced celibacy has brought great disgrace to the name of Christ as many who have embarked on it were never suited to it and fall into sin. Christians are not called to embrace that for which they have not been equipped by grace. Gifting, grace and faith play an important role in determining what our service and sacrifices for the Kingdom should be (Roms 12:6).
- All sacrifice flows from a faith that produces love for Christ and his Kingdom. We are considering here what in the OT was a free-will offering. The only constraint upon the offerer was faith-love for his God. There is no explicit sin here to be forsaken. No rule saying you must do such and such. We give up the legitimate in this world not out of duty or a law but because of the pearl of great price we wish to purchase (Matt 13:45,46). Christ becomes the treasure we will sell all that we have to own (Matt 13:44). Treasure in heaven captures our heart and enables us to turn away from treasure on earth (Matt 6:20,21). Love for Christ will motivate us to leave our comfort zone and walk on stormy water (Matt 14:29), just as love for Christ will break a very expensive box of alabaster over his head (Mk 14:3). There is no duty or rule can provoke devotion, only love. That’s why I get so frustrated by those who try to frame Christianity in terms of law-keeping. It is so impoverished a view of Christian devotion. Only a heart that loves Christ is willing for his sake to lose his life (and possessions) in this world (Matt 10:39). To any heart where love is nor pulsating the idea of sacrifice doesn’t even make sense. Judas considered the burst perfume a waste. He could not understand it because he did not love Christ. Laws, morality, ethical codes don’t guide these decisions only love.
- Paul considered whatever he once valued as acceptable loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, he counted everything as loss because ‘of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus his Lord. For his sake he suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that he may gain Christ… and know him ‘(Phil 3:7-10). Make no mistake, love for Christ is what guides our creation/new creation life balance. It is it that will enable us to make the sacrificial choices, the giving up of the good now for the better to come. The Christian life is faith working through love (Gals 5:6). The motives of the heart are everything here. Nothing less than love for Christ will constrain us to Kingdom cross-bearing (2 Cor 5:14) and in any case nothing other than this love has value to God. ‘Elder brother’ devotion is of no value to God (Lk 15). The question is always to us as it was to Peter, ‘Do you love me more than these’?
- Christian love grows as we feed our hearts on Christ in the gospel. Jesus says the person who realises he has been forgiven much will love much (Lk 7:47). As we reflect ever more deeply on the love of God in the gospel, fill our hearts with the fullness of all God’s love towards us in Christ, and dwell on the dimensions of all God’s plans for us in Christ, the overflow is love. We will live the new creational life God wants when our hearts grasp the great realities of the gospel. As Paul says,
Col 3:1-4 (ESV)
If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.
Recent Comments